Pissed off zen

I am having one of those days that I feel I should be or I actually am pissed off but I am not really letting it all out.  No I am not holding it in I am just really peaceful today and not getting angry like I think I should.  It's all confusing and I am not sure how to feel now.  Started with this morning with two weeks of working my butt off eating healthy and exercising and not losing a pound.  I know how to shake off a plateau when it comes but I just started two weeks ago and not seeing any results. Frustrating.  It ends with getting a call from step daughter that my stepson her younger brother is in the custody of the county jail and will not be leaving for some time.  For the third time for this particular offense.  First time this happened I was freaking out worried so upset I cried nonstop.  Second time I was upset but a little angry.  Now I am just angry with him.  I love him so much but he is a grown man now and he makes his own choices.  I am angry for the way this affects my husband and younger son.  Especially the hubby though, he has been so much more positive lately and more like his old self I know this just crushes him.  That once again he cannot be there for our son when he needs him.  So yes I am a little weirded out by my not feeling the anger now.  Maybe this "alien bracelet I am wearing is finally doing what it is supposed to do.  Ooh big crack of thunder!  Not a big fan of storms here.  WHY do we keep having this debate over socks?!  EIGHT people live in this house.  SEVEN of them wear only white socks.  One of them wears anything but white socks. So every time we find a little rainbow colored sock in our laundry (about once a week) she claims they are not hers.  Come one I don't have to be Spock to deduce who they belong to.  This is a debate that just came up as I am sitting here and had to weigh in on.  I can see I am not getting anything done right now since I am being threatened that the movie I rented is about to start without me so I will have to conclude this later.  These people are FREAKIN nuts.